The CoffeeMeetup guide
One coffee. One real conversation.
CoffeeMeetup is Patna's hand-matched coffee date. No swiping, no endless chatting. A real person on our team picks someone we think you'll get along with, and we book a table at a busy public café. You just show up.
How it works
- 1
Sign up with your email
No password needed: we send you a login link and code.
- 2
Tell us about you
Your name, age, gender, profession, education, height, interests, and the kind of person you'd like to meet.
- 3
Get verified
Add 5 recent photos, take a live selfie doing a simple action, and upload one government ID. A person on our team checks everything, usually within 24 hours.
- 4
Pay for your coffee match
₹199 for women, ₹499 for men, by UPI, card or netbanking.
- 5
We pick your match
We call or WhatsApp you both with the café and time. Nothing is final until both of you say yes; if either of you says no, we find someone else.
- 6
Show up and enjoy the conversation
You pay for your own coffee at the café.
What we ask for, and why
- 5 recent photos
- Clear, recent photos of just you, with no filters or group photos. Your match sees only your main photo, and only once your coffee is booked.
- A live selfie
- Taken in the moment while doing an action we choose, so we know the photos are really you.
- One government ID
- A masked Aadhaar (only the last 4 digits visible), PAN, driving licence, voter ID or passport. You can download a masked Aadhaar free from myaadhaar.uidai.gov.in. We never ask for your full Aadhaar number.
- Your address and phone number
- Kept private and never shown to other members.
Your selfie, ID and address are only ever seen by our team. They are shared with the police only if they lawfully request them after a reported incident.
Safety tips for your meetup
- Meet only at the café we book. It is always a busy, public place.
- Tell a friend or family member where you are going and when.
- Arrange your own travel to and from the café.
- Keep personal details like your home address private until you're comfortable.
- If anything feels wrong, leave, and tell us. We remove anyone who behaves badly.
Pricing and refunds
- ₹199 for women and ₹499 for men, per coffee match.
- If we can't match you within 14 days, you get a full refund.
- Can't make it? Tell us at least 24 hours before and we'll re-match you at no extra cost.
- If your match doesn't show up, we re-match you free or refund you.
Frequently asked questions
Who can join?
Anyone aged 18 or over who lives in or near Patna.
Is this a date?
Yes. We introduce single men and women who'd like to meet someone to date. It's one coffee with no pressure: whether you meet again is up to you both.
Do you share my phone number?
No. Your match sees your first name, age, profession, a short bio and your main photo. We arrange the meetup, so your phone and email stay private.
Why do women pay less?
It keeps the numbers of men and women balanced, so everyone gets matched sooner.
Can I choose who I meet?
Tell us your preferred age range and what you're looking for. Our team uses that when picking your match.
How long does matching take?
Usually a few days. If we can't arrange a coffee you both agree to within 14 days, you get your money back.
Contact us
We help by email. Write to contact@coffeemeetup.in from the email address you log in with, and we will reply within one working day.
